Acquired disability
When something new happens to you, something you have not had before. For example, acquiring deafblindness means you were not deafblind at birth but became deafblind later. Your disability is acquired because you never had it from the beginning.
Complex
Something that is hard, difficult. Something not easy to understand. For example, deafblindness is complex because most people cannot understand how deafblind people live.
Barrier
Something which stops you from doing something in life. Example, deafblind people have a lot of barriers in their life because the world is not made for deafblind people.
Culture
Lifestyle or traditions, something that a group of people have in common. Deafblind culture means the things that all deafblind people do the same, share the same ideas and beliefs about things.
Counsellor/psychologist
This is a professional person who has special training in helping people with things. They are people you can talk to when you feel life is very hard and you want some support with your mental health. These people are not your family or friends, they are people you will not have known before. You must pay them for their service.
Numb
When you can’t feel anything. It can mean both emotional and physical feelings. When you are numb, it means something bad has happened to make you feel that way.
Motivation
When you feel like you have energy to do things. When your mood is very positive and you feel like getting things done, like being social and doing housework. When you are not motivated, it is the opposite feeling – you don’t want to get out of bed in the morning because your mood is very low. You don’t want to do things because you don’t have the energy.
Grief
When you feel really, really, really sad. When you have lost something, or someone which is important to you. If someone dies who you love, you will feel grief. If you lose your vision and hearing over time, you will feel grief. Grief is much more than just normal sadness, it is a lot deeper.
Isolated
This means feeling alone. You can feel isolated even if you are around lots of people. Isolation comes from being deafblind because you feel that people don’t understand your world. Isolation can happen when you can’t access things that other people can access because they are not deafblind. If you don’t have a CommGuide or enough NDIS funding, you feel isolated because you can’t do things that make you happy. Isolation is loneliness but it’s a lot worse for people who are deafblind.
Discrimination
When people are treated differently/wrongly because of their disability. Discrimination can happen in different ways and not only deafblind people experience it. People with all types of disabilities, people who are aboriginal or who are gay can also experience discrimination. It means when you are not treated fairly or equally as other people without a disability. It means that people’s attitudes towards you are not positive and people can do hurtful things.
Negative perspective
When you can’t see things in a positive way. It can also mean that other people’s opinion of you is not positive. If somebody thinks that you are not a good person because you are deafblind, then their perspective of you is negative instead of positive.
Losing someone close to you
When someone who you love and care about dies or passes away. But it can also mean that a relationship you have had is no longer able to continue so you have lost your partner or your child or your friend, but not to death.
Inclusion
When people involve you in things. Ask you to be part of things. Including deafblind people in important things is something that doesn’t always happen. The opposite of inclusion is exclusion. Inclusion also means making sure things are accessible to deafblind people. Inclusion can mean having ramps instead of stairs and having good lighting in dark places. It can also mean providing interpreters for deafblind people, captioners and audio descriptions.
Financial barriers
When you can’t do things because you don’t have enough money. Financial means money, so if you can’t afford something that is a barrier. That can mean NDIS financial barriers or personal financial barriers. Both types of barriers mean that money is a problem to doing what you need/want to do.
Genetics
Things that you get from your mum and dad. For example, if you have blue eyes or red hair, one of your parents also has those. You have been given what they have through a process called genetics. If your mum or dad has depression or anxiety, it means that you could also have these conditions because it is genetic. It means what comes through generations of your family history. Sometimes, if your mum or dad are deafblind, that is why you are deafblind too. Because you have inherited it from them.
Ending your life
When you feel like you would like to die. This is also known as suicide. When people kill themselves. Wanting to end your life can happen when you feel like life is not worth living because there is not enough positivity in it. When people are depressed or have anxiety which is very bad, ending their life is sometimes what they prefer to do because that is easier than trying to live. It feels like it is their only choice.
Exploited
To take advantage of, or use someone, for your own benefit. For example, support workers, interpreters and CommGuides can sometimes exploit deafblind people because they have NDIS funding so these people can easily get lots of work from the deafblind person and become rich. Sometimes these people don’t do their jobs very well and only want the deafblind person’s money so that means they are exploiting the deafblind person.
Loss of independence
When you can’t do things by yourself anymore and need lots of help to do things that you could do without help before. For example, when deafblind people lose more sight or hearing, they become more dependent on other people to get through their daily life. It can mean that you need help with cooking, shopping or exercising.